Discussion of different types of Narcissist traits in us

This is a discussion that Rita/Nandini and myself had sometimes ago when we were doing reflection of the type of Narcissist traits that we have in us.

The Great Con-Artist, Liar… #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo

Pleasant looking, approachable and sincere was the fake image that #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo “Sell” to the innocent people around her.

Being a Narcissist myself, I can vouch that I used that as a tool to play my games as well, but I must admit that #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo is a master in these games and I not only enabled her, I was also being recruited as her flying monkey to create distrust among the volunteers in Kosmic Fusion.

When I first knew #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo in 2013, her tactics was to gain my trust because she wanted to be associated with anyone who is close to Sree Maa Shri Ji and I was targeted by her because she saw the weakness in me, that I like to criticise, gossips and being the selfish one who likes to take advantage of kind people around me.

Most of the Narcissists will never be satisfied with being an average person, we need to be in limelight, be that special person so to play the games of this great martyr, to gain supply (sympathy). #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo’s aim was to be the representative of Kosmic Fusion, so that she can make use of Kosmic Fusion’s platform to spread her fang across Australia and Asian countries. From the many conversations that I had with #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo, she was always brainwashing me into supporting her different ideas into commercialise the healing session as she knows money is also one of my weakness

#Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo came out with plans for promotion package, how to recruit people into joining Kosmic Fusion as a practitioner so that she can start charging them. She also manipulated the content of the actual healing, making it more “attractive” to people, so that people will fall into her trap. It was all about money making for #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo. For example, her marketing package such as buy XX sessions get 1 session FREE.

For instance, she knew that money was most important things to people, she used that as a dangling carrot to make people come to her by giving misleading information, giving empty promises that their financial situation will be improved. Of course #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo made sure that I will eventually take the blame for all her ideas as she was making use of my position as Sree Maa’s intimate assistance and cornered me into support her ideas when all these while I have not said anything. 

#Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo is good in putting words into others mouth, she will lead the conversation, then lure her flying monkey into saying or doing what she has planned for, one example I recalled #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo showed me her Holistic Freedom website and asked for my opinion and when I gave some of my feedback, she will “negotiate” and make sure it looks like she “removed” certain content from her website but she cunningly made sure that I was the witness to her other contents. Eventually when doubts arises, she will put my name under the train, saying that she has shown to me but I did not tell her it’s not okay. This is how slyly #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo subtly played her games.

It is blessing in disguise that I am a lazy person who has no discipline, so I never put much thoughts into what #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo has been trying hard to trap me into , such as translating the Kosmic Fusion intellectual properties into chinese language. I would have been her enabler, accomplice and let her spread her territory to the chinese market, create more harm to more people.

Looking back at what #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo has presented herself to others, she was a patience, careful person. She was quick to put herself in good light, there was once out of gossip nature, I asked #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo how long will it take for both her husband and son to travel to and fro central coast. She was fast to praise her husband and son that they are understanding and supportive of her “spiritual” quest, that they did not mind about the long travelling hours . #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo never wanted to admit that she has manipulated their love for her to make those sacrifices, because to her it’s her entitlement. It is sad to see that she even lied to her own family members for her own convenience.

#Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo wanted the best of everything, she wanted to be the devoted wife, mummy to her family as well as the greatest volunteer in Kosmic Fusion, so she lied to everyone. She brainwashed her family into believing that she is very committed to the spiritual work, that she has no time for them and she seized the opportunity to stop working when there was a restructuring happen at work, she opted for the retrenchment fee rather then moving to other department. In her smear campaign, she lied that she was forced to quit her job and that she spent all her money in Kosmic Fusion. It was all a LIE! #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo told me that she has spent near to $15K of the money she gotten from her retrenchment to engage a Taiwanese teacher and learn about social media, website, marketing and dragging Kosmic Fusion’s mission in to justify herself. The truth is that she was learning how to run a MLM (Multi Level Marketing) campaign to recruit people so that she can earn money from it. 

If #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo wanted to prove her innocent, I will challenge #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo to show her bank statement of her bank transaction between late 2014 till end of 2015. I trust the bank statement is something that cannot be manipulated. I am appealing to anyone not to take her stories at face value when she has not proven anything concrete, just empty talks. 

I knew about it after #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo tried to recruit me as a member for her MLM business which she presented her plan, website to me. I am not the only one whom she approached, she has make use of Kosmic Fusion resources and sell her ideas to the volunteers especially the ones in Australia and New Zealand. I am sure those volunteers who has been approached by #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo can vouch this as well.

Narcissists do not have any sense of remorse and regrets, this applies to #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo who did not feel that she has wronged anyone when we have been taught by Sree Maa to be morally responsible, to be honest, act with integrity and be authentic. I can see that all #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo is only after the numbers, these are contacts that will give her potential source of income. #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo would twist information or give vague answers to patronise her clients. 

#Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo has been the director, actress for the big script she has written for herself since she leave Kosmic Fusion. #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo first played the victim, then created a new fake identity for herself of being abused and this great being who has gone against all odds, fighting the “bad” and the heroine who has displayed her strength and came out as the “winner”

Most people who do not know #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo well, will fall for her sob stories, but after spending sometime with her, most people are able to tell from their personal experience if #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo is a genuine person or a con artist.

#Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo is giving the lies that she is an “Awaken” healer who has more than 10 years of healing experience…. all LIES! I would invite anyone to do some research on the internet, you will find there is actual a healer from the States who wrote the book “AWAKENING JOY”, he even attended Oprah talk show . One would ask … Isn't that a high chance that others will mistaken “#Awakening with Joy” with the author of “AWAKENING JOY” ? Is it a coincidence? NO, NO, NO … this is all plan!…#Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo wanted this misunderstand to happen! Narcissists would LOVE to ride on others to ripe the benefit of their hard work, steal the credits of others! It is free publicity for her!

This is what #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo has done, she first used the Dimash music in her YouTube videos, her agenda is to making use of Dimash fan base to surf her YouTube to increase the traffic for her Dimash related videos. As mentioned above, #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo knew that Money, Love has always been in almost everyone’s mind, she started crystal healing for Love …This is another avenue of games for supplies. 

Narcissists will not know how to STOP when there are ready supplies for us… Narcissists will eventually become the greatest con artist, murders, psychopath, abusers to the society…

I would like to appeal to anyone who has been approached  by #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo, please use your discernment and decide if she is a genuine person.

Please refer to the below link for more insight:

https://www.kosmicfusion.com/false-claims-vs-truth-reality-check-on-the-story-of-joy-kuo/

How Narcissist can be the greatest Illusionist, Fraud, Con-Artist

One of the common traits of a Narcissist is Grandiosity, in this grandiosity Narcissists seek for attention, demand "respect", self proclaim being this great achiever / victim of some events.

To a Narcissist, even a negative attention is attention. What we need are eyes on us so that we can be the centre of attention, to be in limelight to orchestrate our games, when there are no participants, we will loose interest and seek for another outlet which will fulfill the needs to be this "great" being. In this process, Narcissist hunt for the ready victims (enabler/empathy) to be the supply.

Below shows a systematic plan Narcissists do to get into the new fake identity ...

Step 1) Building up the Fake Identity - self deluded image of being this great being/ victim of self written sob stories

Step 2) Grooming, recruit Flying Monkeys - by playing kind, appear approachable to gain trust (collect information)

Step 3) Start  Character Assassination - filling the victims' ears with lies, gossips to prepare the flying monkeys to do projection, triangulation, set target on whom narcissists are wary and suspect will exposed them in near future

Step 4) Discredit whom the Narcissist deem as threat - Start playing the games of victimhood to gain sympathy, claiming that s/he is the biggest victim of what happened, giving one-sided manipulated stories to show how s/he fights the "bad" and come out strong

Step 5) Build a new Fake Identity - Being this great person who has overcome obstacles and overnight become a expert of some field, without any proper certification/ official document as proof.

New round of fake identities, lies and deception begins .... new set of innocent victims will fall for their sob stories and become their supply ....

Now, let's look #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo as a case study, what has she display so far that fit into the below actions in the next blog.

Building up the Fake Identity
Grooming, recruit Flying Monkeys
Character Assassination
Discredit whom the Narcissist deem as threat 
Build a new Fake Identity

Please refer to the below link for more insight:

https://www.kosmicfusion.com/false-claims-vs-truth-reality-check-on-the-story-of-joy-kuo/

Narcissists in the Ashram House - Dallia/Iphigenie (Part 2)

Now as I am sharing on what's happening in the Ashram House, I am fully responsible of my own contribution to the destruction to the Ashram House project.

Sree Maa and Shri Ji were bearing the brunt of our power struggles, lies. fights and schemes that were happening to Sree Maa and Shri Ji everyday, I am seeing how I have caused the harassment  and disturbance to Sree Maa and Shri Ji.

Who will want to handle a group of Narcissists and deal with our lies, facades, hypocrisy and looking at our different masks and faces every single day? But Sree Maa and Shri Ji did that for us, so that we can have the platform to learn about ourselves and learn to be honest, so that we will stop hurting the innocent people around us.We are being accepted without any judgement of who we are so that healing can happened.

It is sad that 2 of the ex volunteers, Dallia/Iphigenie and #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo, instead of seeing the sacrifices that Sree Maa and Shri Ji had made for us, turned their back and start their smearing campaign, which only give one-sided story of what really happen. I believe everyone should have the right to know what happen and decide for themselves who is speaking the truth.

I have been their enabler for them to cause damage and hurt to both Sree Maa, Shri Ji and Kosmic Fusion. After reflecting, I know now that it is so wrong of me in so many levels, especially towards Sree Maa and Shri Ji, who have selflessly given up their personal life for us.

I now choose to stand up and speak my truth of what really happen and will not hide the facts nor will I be the bystander anymore.

My deepest Gratitude to Sree Maa and Shri Ji for embracing me without any question ask so that I have the strength to face my self 🙏🙇🙏

Below are some incidents that I experience personally with Dallia/Iphigenie in the Ashram House...

Dallia/Iphigenie

Dallia/Iphigenie got the chance to come into the Ashram House because I have invited her into the Ashram House project for my own personal agenda of wanting to run away from what I have committed to do. 

The first day Dallia/Iphigenie stepped into the Ashram House, she started to "label" her territory by removing lots of items that belongs to Sree Maa and Shri Ji in the kitchen and make space for her own items, her things were spread across the Ashram House as if she owes the Ashram House.

Then Dallia/Iphigenie started to use her "position" in the Ashram House to get the other New Zealand Volunteers to do errands for her or assist her by giving the excuse that she wanted to work as one team. Dallia/Iphigenie even manipulated 2 New Zealand volunteers to help her move her things to the Ashram House and clean her old apartment, I was unable to believe my ears when I witnessed her asking one of the volunteer why the volunteer did not turn up to assist her at her apartment and in a accusing manner implying that this volunteer was trying to "run away" from the responsibility... it is such ridiculous accusation that she was raising as there was no obligation from anyone in the first place.

In the Ashram House, Dallia/Iphigenie was bossing Rita and myself to cover the Ashram House duties because she was feeling more superior than us. There were many internal fights among us, the Narcissists, for instance, we would delayed in preparing the dinner and occupied the kitchen the entire time and in the end Sree Maa and Shri Ji would ended up having dinner outside.

There was this incident that I always remember,  there was this one day when I was raking leaves near the pool of the Ashram House, I accidentally fell into the pool and nearly drown, Dallia/Iphigenie was laughing at my state when I went to the door to ask for help and all soaked and wet. She was enjoying herself and never show any concern to ask if I am alright. She even find it funny and told Sree Maa about it and Sree Maa was so worried about me and it's only after Sree Maa asked her to bring me some hot drink that Dallia/Iphigenie reluctantly went. There was no empathy shown by her at all. 

Whenever there were occassion where I get to spend time with Dallia/Iphigenie, she was always fillings my ears about Rita, telling me how dominating, unreasonable Rita was and that she was not a trusting person at all, she was creating wedges as she knew that we worked together, it's only when the fights arises that she can play her games. Which I found out months later that Dallia/Iphigenie was displeased that I took over the position in Rita's shop which she was eyeing for a very long time, Dallia/Iphigenie did not only targeted me, she actually did it to another staff of Rita's who was supposedly one of the potential candidate as well. As you can see now, if the Narcissists cannot get what they wanted, they will make sure that NOBODY gets it as well, the Narcissists will make sure damages are done, you will be able to catch them smirking to show their twisted sense of victory in the sick mind.

Months after Dallia/Iphigenie moved into the Ashram House, there was a day I was made the witness to sign on a IOU paper for the loan that Dallia/Iphigenie was trying to hide from everyone, the truth eventually came out and the volunteer who loan the money to Dallia/Iphigenie had to make me the witness because the trust was no longer there as Dallia/Iphigenie was trying to wiggle her way out of the loan ( it was later revealed by the volunteer that Dallia/Iphigenie was making use Sree Maa and Shri Ji's name to get her hands on the loan for her personal expenses.)

Encounter with 2 ex-Kosmic Fusion Volunteers - Dallia/Iphigenie Amoutsias (part 1)

My first encounter with Dallia/Iphigenie Amoutsias happened in 2013. She was projecting herself being a elegant,sensitive individual who was searching for the truth. Constantly showing how “warm & welcoming” she was to general public. Again another strong Narcissist in disguise which only be revealed if you spend enough time with them.

I was welcoming with words like “Darling, dear …” when we first met, I was being reserved as one of Narcissistic trait is that we do not trust easily. I was using a “wait & see” attitude when liaising with Dallia/Iphigenie Amoutsias. As I also have the “yellow skin” inferiority complex in me, in my mind I have already put Dallia/Iphigenie Amoutsias  above me.

In our 2013 workshop, I vividly remember one incident where Dallia/Iphigenie Amoutsias was sharing about what she was doing during our tea break, she introduced herself as a belly dance teacher, a Buddhist of 25 years who used to be the top dog and travel around to do house visiting.. Now that I look back, Dallia/Iphigenie Amoutsias  was showing signs of her grandiosity and how special she was. 

This was especially obvious when during one of the introductory night, Dallia/Iphigenie Amoutsias was showing off to me how special she was because she was able to “pick-up” and saw the reptilian tail in one of the participant’s boyfriend, which I later found out that was her friend, whom she wanted to keep as a secret because this friend of hers knew about who she really is.

In 2015, I got to spend more time with Dallia/Iphigenie Amoutsias due to my needs to get free rides and gossips. Dallia/Iphigenie Amoutsias took that opportunity to play games with me. In a very well planned manner, Dallia/Iphigenie Amoutsias started her gas lighting with me, constantly making me feel confused by tell me things like “no, I didn’t say that”, “no, are you sure?”, “wait … what did you just say?” slowly breaking my confidence and create confusion to my mind. I even have to take a break her so that I can get my sanity back. I am totally responsible for enabling her by falling into her trap and eventually became her flying monkey to plant her into the Ashram House project.

The mind games that Narcissist played is so subtle that it is so difficult for anyone to point out what exactly is wrong, for those who are reflective and kind will take the responsibility in their life and start looking within and this may be one of the biggest mistake made as the Narcissists being an opportunist will use this platform to mess up their victims' mind and break their spirits.